Hunting vs Family

Discussion in 'Deer Hunting' started by kyhunter99, Jan 13, 2019.

  1. kyhunter99

    kyhunter99 8 pointer

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    How do you guys manage the balance of hunting and family? Mainly asking about when the kids are small.
    Obviously *someone* has to watch the kids. And with work and other peoples schedules sometimes the season seems to take a beating. What are some solutions and do/did you ever wave the white flag on getting out?
     
  2. Bubbles

    Bubbles 8 pointer

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    I have had no problem with hunting. Fishing is totally different. I have a boat and only taken it out a dozen times in 3 years...none this year. Kids sports are relentless
     
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  3. Tufrthnails

    Tufrthnails 10 pointer

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    Well one year I didn't hunt we were tight on money and with the munchkin that didn't get any easier. The next season came and I was kinda planning to do the same and not hunt, but my wife told me I am never going to live through a hunting season in the same house with you when you can't go hunting. She says I was the biggest A-hole that season watching my buddies from the sideline that she has made a lot of sacrifices over the years to make sure I get to exorcise my demons as she calls it. My current job allows me to hunt during the week sometimes its only a midday sit some days I get to sit money hours. I started bringing my son from time to time once he was out of diapers so that gave her a break when I was hunting private land. Now that he is 13 life is great I get to hunt when I want and he comes along from time to time, but I hunt swamps a lot here in FL so he's still kinda sketched out on my tougher hunts, but I do some easy stuff too cause i love having him along.
     
  4. bowhunter269

    bowhunter269 12 pointer

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    My kids are all grown. Wife knows she won’t see me from Halloween thru thanksgiving. If friends/family schedule anything, she usually goes without me.
     
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  5. 1wildcatfan

    1wildcatfan 12 pointer

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    the wife and i don't hunt much ourselves right now. two teenagers. our hunting and our golfing has taken a backseat to the boys the past 10 yrs. before that, that is all we did. the way i see it is to make personal sacrifices or sacrifice the family, and option two is only for the deadbeat parents.
     
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  6. wv67

    wv67 10 pointer

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    When Ever I met a woman and we started to see one another ( even in school) I made it clear I spend as much time with my grandfather hunting as I could some understood some didn’t , when I got married there was never a problem kids came no problem my son and daughter have been in the woods since they could walk ( early season) while it’s warm and as they aged I took them more and more
     
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  7. bgkyarcher

    bgkyarcher 12 pointer

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    Unless my daughter had a play/game/event of some kind, or she asked me to do something special with her, Saturday was my day to hunt/fish/golf/whatever.
     
  8. luvtohunt

    luvtohunt 10 pointer

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    With the better half back in school it has been a little more difficult this year. Planning is your friend. I try to look at a month and base my days on stand or on the water on what works for us as a family. I try to make my days worth it sometimes being on the water all day, on stand all day, or doing a combo of both with the knowledge ahead of time I will be gone from before daylight til a little after dark. It has worked thus far though my time has been more limited. Enjoy the time you do have and let it be more about the hunt/fishing than the kill/catch. I don’t kill Boone and crocket deer or catch trophies every time out but I enjoy myself and I eat venison and fresh fish every year.
     
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  9. ojibwa62

    ojibwa62 12 pointer

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    GOD, FAMILY then everything else in that order any deviation and you are fooling yourself..
     
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  10. ky.longbeard

    ky.longbeard 10 pointer

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    Stay married 47 years and their glad to see you go hunting !!
     
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  11. ojibwa62

    ojibwa62 12 pointer

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    Different story when you are younger though go too much and you will find yourself single again..lol
     
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  12. Bubbles

    Bubbles 8 pointer

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    You say that as if that would be a bad thing
     
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  13. wprebeck

    wprebeck 12 pointer

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    My wife makes sure I have the weekends for hunting whenever I want. She understands that being out of the city and away from people is the only way I can recharge my batteries after the tsunami of stupid that occurs during my work week.

    I got a good wife.
     
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  14. carnivore

    carnivore 12 pointer

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    Buying a house with hunting behind the house keeps me married. My first attempt at having a family was a failure and i wont let it happen again.
     
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  15. ojibwa62

    ojibwa62 12 pointer

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    Funny how we have to fail sometimes to figure it out.. My first marriage failed for many reasons, reasons I won't get into. I do think the number one reason my first marriage failed above all else is there was no God in our lives.. I believe that is reason many marriages fail..
     
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