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Xi Bowhunter
07-27-2008, 10:22 PM
I want to share a story with you guys that really shows that you can't judge a book by it's cover, and there are still generous people in this world.

I went to Panama City Beach for vacation last week with my family. Every night, I went to the beach and fished in the surf for anything that would bite. The first night I went fishing, an older man and his son-in-law came down from their beach house to see what I was catching. I answered their questions, didn't pay much attention to them, and kept on fishing.

The older fella, kept talking to me while I was fishing, and had a flashlight in his hand that he kept shining into peoples eyes because it was so bright, just joking around. I didn't pay much attention to that either.

Some of the people in my party made comments about the guy later that night, saying that he was being rude and may have been drunk, but I didn't think so, I thought he was just trying to be funny.

So the next morning, I was out on the beach at 5am fishing again, and he spotted me and came down from his beach house to talk to me again. We got to talking about fishing, and he asked me where I like to fish. I said I enjoy fishing KY/Barkley lakes in KY, because that is where I live. Well, come to find out, he likes to fish tournaments there, but he lives just outside of Tulsa, OK.

After talking for a while, he invited me to go fishing with him. I asked him where he wanted to go, and he told me he had a boat chartered for two days, and I could come along free of charge. So I talked to the old-lady, and she said that she didn't care if I went, so I decided to go.

This guy took me and his grandsons out for 10 hours of fishing free of charge. I found out later, that that charter cost $1500, and he chartered it for 2 days! After we caught a boat-load of fish and made our way back to the dock and I got a picture with his party and all of our fish and headed back to the van. The man that took the picture came up to me, and asked if I wanted to buy a copy of the pic for $25, but I said no thanks as I am on a vacation budget. The guy that chartered to boat over-heard this, and ended up buying the pic and giving it to me later. I thought that was very nice of the guy, and really didn't want to accept it after he had taken me, a total stranger, out on his charter boat free of charge.

So later, I got to talking to the son-in-law, and come to find out, the guy that chartered the boat for all of us is a millionaire. He owns 6-7 companies in and around the Tulsa area, and seems to be doing very well, but you would never guess it if you meet the guy. He doesn't talk about money, and is just a good, down to earth guy. His grandsons, who are just a little younger than me, invited me to stay in contact with them and maybe do some hunting or fishing sometime at their land in Tulsa. The millionaire guy also exchanged contact information with me, and wants me to stay in contact with him to do some fishing and hunting.

I guess I am just friendly to just about anybody, and this whole experience just goes to show you never know who you might run into. I was just blown away at the generosity of this guy, and couldn't have thanked him enough.

carpenterguy
07-27-2008, 11:05 PM
Sounds like a great experience from which you gained a friend!! Can't get much better than that!!

Snareman2
07-28-2008, 01:03 AM
Hey X, I'm glad you had a great vacation!

Like minded and common interest, the outdoors brings alot of us together. I talk to people all the time, my wife used to always say I am to friendly. Doesn't matter where we go, I have pleasant conversations with everyone I meet. Here is the big "if". If I had money, I wouldn't mind doing things for and with people. But I don't, so I just settle on talking, it's free.:D

BadDuck
07-28-2008, 02:48 PM
Insert smarta** comment here.

But I wont, instead I will say Good job. Congrats on making a new friend.

Art
07-28-2008, 02:52 PM
Just goes to show that if you treat everyone with kindness and respect then good things will come.

PhilpotHunter
07-28-2008, 03:16 PM
so did you ever ask him why he was shining the light in your face like a butt head???

JK, congrats on making a new friend and great contact

buckfever
07-28-2008, 03:39 PM
I don't know if I would've been brave enough to get on a chartered boat with some old guy that got his kicks and giggles by going down to the beach and shining a strong flashlight in people's faces. Reminds me of this thread. . . .

http://www.kentuckyhunting.net/forums/showthread.php?t=63685

J/K, ditto what Art said. What kind of fish did you catch and did you take any home with you?

buckfever
07-28-2008, 05:42 PM
What kind of fish did you catch and did you take any home with you?

And just for the record. . . . .when I asked "did you take any home with you", I meant "did you take any fish home with you", not old guys that liked to throw their money (and chartered boats) at impressionable young lads that go surf fishing at night in their banana hammocks. :D

DENNISdrpjr
07-28-2008, 05:47 PM
Theres good people out there,just the bad ones make you forget.

Kentuck
07-28-2008, 08:09 PM
Like it when folks with more than others treats folks like this. I'm sure there are others out there just like him, you just don't hear about them. Just the one's that stay drunk, doped up and naked.

skin_dog1
07-28-2008, 10:02 PM
Cool story, but I gotta know if the subject of politics came up? If not then I'd recomend you leave it that way. Something tells me that a millionaire business owner might not agree with alot of your political principles.

Xi Bowhunter
07-28-2008, 10:18 PM
Cool story, but I gotta know if the subject of politics came up? If not then I'd recomend you leave it that way. Something tells me that a millionaire business owner might not agree with alot of your political principles.

Man, you are REALLY hung up on politics aren't you? We are just fellow hunters/fishermen having a great day out on the water. We actually did talk politics and religion on the boat ride out. Your political affiliation doesn't make you a bad person. Do you not like hanging out with fellow hunters just because they don't vote the way you do?:confused:

slickhead slayer
07-28-2008, 11:11 PM
Were there any catches? Did you have to sit on his lap or anything while you fished?:D
Just kidding, glad you had a good time.

buckfever
07-28-2008, 11:48 PM
Just the one's that stay drunk, doped up and naked.

Oh my goodness, I nearly wet myself. :D

Not just drunk and doped up, but drunk, naked, and doped up.

Were there any catches? Did you have to sit on his lap or anything while you fished?:D

Another goodun. :D

Buford
07-29-2008, 02:14 PM
Just the one's that stay drunk, doped up and naked.

You all got something against a little God given nudity???

cornbread
07-30-2008, 12:00 AM
It puts the lotion on.

AteUp
07-30-2008, 12:12 AM
It puts the lotion on.

Easy there Bill.:eek: